"Take that Dad!" The boy says as he smacks my XBOX Godzilla guy with the tale of his XBOX Godzilla guy. I love the competitive fire. But I feel like I might be loving it in a very Emperor/Anakin sort of way. The boy does not like to lose and that is a good thing in my opinion.
When I was 19, I coached my little sisters softball team. They won every game up to the last game of the season when I decided to let girls that might not ever get a chance to pitch again - pitch. Other girls played mostly out of position. The girls had a great time and played hard, but lost the game. I gathered the team around and began to talk to them about the importance of having fun and playing hard and started my "winning isn't everything" talk. A hand shot up and one of the girls says, "Coach, we know winning isn't everything, it's just a whole lot better than losing." I said good point and ended the post game talk.
I hope that even in our P.C. world that we don't spend more time explaining (to their kids) how "winning isn't everything" than we do helping our kids learn what it takes to win.
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